There are certain behaviors or habits that, although seemingly insignificant, some women are guilty of that drive men crazy – and not in a good way. Indeed, some guys might find them totally off-putting and see them as a downright turnoff. They tend to give an uncomfortable feeling commonly known as “the ick.”
This was the subject of one online forum where guys shared their girlfriends’ or wives’ worst habits. It’s important to note that these observations reflect personal preferences and opinions; not everyone may share the same sentiments. That said, here are ten things women do that an online community believes might evoke the “ick” response.
Duckface: The Cringe That Survived the Decade
The 2010s were the era of duckface and Snapchat filters. Unfortunately, many have carried the tradition to 2023. One user says that the duckface was cringe even 15 years ago. Continuing these cringe-worthy practices in 2023 seems unjustifiable to them.
“Handle Me at My Worst”: The Entitlement Epidemic
Not many people are fond of women who feature the following Tinder bio: “If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best.” While the original saying emphasizes the importance of unconditional love, some men find that many who use this bio exhibit a sense of entitlement and immaturity.
Astrology Excuses
Another behavior that rubs some individuals wrong is when women attribute everything to their zodiac sign. One user humorously points out the absurdity by mimicking, “Oop, sorry for almost running you over with my car! I’m a Scorpio.” This flippant use of astrology doesn’t hold up as a valid explanation for one’s actions.
Hairy Drains
Sometimes, a single behavior can trigger the “ick” response, even within a loving relationship. Take, for example, a husband who gags at the sight of his wife’s hair clogging the drain. Though he claims not to be easily grossed out, something about hair strands obstructing the drain pushes him to his limit.
Stains That Make You Say “Oh Sheet!”
White towels are sacred pieces of fabric. Hence, when some women use them to wipe makeup, numerous users come together to call out such unsettling behavior. The unsettling brown stains all over the glistening white towel are a pet peeve for many. One husband says that despite his insistence on using darker towels, his wife still prefers white ones, only for them to end up in a sorry state.
Scottish Sunbathers
Fake tans have become increasingly popular, but appropriateness and context matter. Some find it absurd when women in Scotland sport an excessively obvious fake tan, seemingly oblivious to their geographical location. It’s as if they forget Glasgow doesn’t require a summery Madrid glow.
When Being a Potato Isn’t Cute
Many individuals confess that labeling toxic traits as “quirks” is an immediate turn-off. The trope of playing dumb to appear cute, for example, garners strong disinterest from some. Recognizing and addressing toxic behaviors is essential instead of masking them as endearing quirks.
Testing the Limits
Men of the forum are not fans of women who “test” them. Past experiences don’t justify putting future partners through a poor variant of the Squid Games. Not only are these tests unnecessary, some are even unattainable. It’s almost as if whatever you do will be a failure.
Dinosaur Claws: A Nail Trend That’s Extinct
In addition to fake tans, members mention overdone makeup and significant body alterations as downers. A special mention also goes to fake nails that are probably a meter long. “I don’t find your dinosaur claws attractive at all,” says one user.
Pinching Noses and Damaged Ears
Among many absurd “icks,” one person mentions how they hate it when women squeeze their noses when jumping into the water. Although it may seem trivial, it manages to irk them. However, another individual points out the importance of safety, revealing that neglecting to pinch his nose once caused him permanent ear damage. So safety comes first, “ick” second.
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